Pregnancy is a beautiful thing to happen to any women on this planet earth but it is not likely that the news of pregnancy will be joy, mainly in the case of those women who have unplanned pregnancy. In this case the news of pregnancy brings lots of worries and even create panic. There can be various reasons that might scare you to hear the news of pregnancy like your age, social fear, financial reasons, lack of time and other emotional reasons. If you are single or too young then the news of pregnancy can create many problems. Many times due to condom breaks or the failure of the birth control pills many women can land into unplanned pregnancy.
The first thing that you will need to know if you get unplanned pregnancy is to keep calm. Don’t take any hasty decisions under panic. Try to analysis every angle of the problem. Abortion is an option but keeping the baby or giving the baby up for adoption is much better options. Think about you and the baby and then decide something that will be in the interest of both of you. It is also not good to take the decisions on your own; your partner should be also involved in it. Both you and your partner should sit together and plan your next actions.
When you come to know about the unplanned pregnancy news, do confide it with someone who cares for you and who will give you good support and help you take some better decision. If anyone is there in your family or friends who has nagging nature then just stay away from sharing your news with them. Remember to share the news first with the male partner involved in this. See all the options that are available for you and as much as possible avoid going for abortion. There are various clinics and adoption centers that will help you by providing their support and will also give you proper information.
In case there are financial reasons that are bothering you then these adoptions centers and pregnancy clinics will be really helpful for you. These centers will give you pre and postal natal care, clothes during pregnancy, housing, adoptions services and legal advice, etc. If you are thinking that the adoption procedure is much complicated then you are wrong. Earlier the adoption process was very complicated but now everything is smooth. If you wish your name will be completely confidential. Also the centers will provide you list of couples that are willing to adopt a child, and then you can meet the couples and decide to whom you will like to give your baby. This will also give you peace of mind, as you will not give your child to anyone undeserving of child.
So even if the unplanned pregnancy will bring unhappiness in the beginning, as you will approach your pregnancy, you will enjoy the pregnancy. This is because you know you are giving a secured life to your child. In case you want to raise the child by yourself then also you can keep the child, as it is the best thing that you can give to your baby.